HE IS A GREAT HUSBAND

Last 12 february 2015 marked the 5th anniversary of our marriage...

My husband is a great husband...he deserves to be treated well and to be loved unconditionally...

for the several times..i made a promise to myself to be presentable everytime  in front of him..
i need to make sure i wear a neat clothes ...put bedak at least and little bit lipstick...and apply perfume....In order to do those things... basically i need to love myself... do not let myself drown into the house chores and responsibilities until forget to take care of myself...

for the several times..i made a promise to myself to be silence and not to bring up any issues when the tired and stress husband got back home....silence is a best policy..he would be happier if i just smile and prepare the food and all the necessities without hearing my naggies or stories as if i dun really exist at the moment. The women that just stay at home and do not meet other people for quite sometime should just keep the stories to her self or tell your friends via whatapps or phone. You need to let your husband who is struggling at his workplace to earn money for the family a time to rest...let him be with his handphone...surfing internet and facebooking...watch videos and read politics issues...yea..guys need to be prepared with information and knowledge...they are a head of the family...this is important to lead the family rather than communicate with their partner.

for the several times i made a promise to myself not to snore and hide your ugly sleeping face...burokk pompuan tido dengkur tau..back to para 1....i need to be presentable in front of him
...after he is asleep then you can start to snore hokey

for the several times a made a promise to myself...to prepare myself to be a good houseworker...focus myself to taking care of my kids, cook good food, clean the house, do laudry, do prayer.. i dont need to find money...no need to think to sell anything...no need to berangan want to do a business and what not...no need to be like his shaklee friend....owhh this is a dream of every wife in the world i think...no need to find money...just spending haha...how lucky i am...maybe he wanted me to contribute also..but he knows me well..i am not good at finding money...i will come with many excuses and put conditions into my plan and end up nothing.

well promise is a promise...i always forgot the promises as well...i hardly change myself... i hope this 5 years courtship..  at least i have a bit changes to be a better wife...

he is a great husband....he is working alone, cleaning up cat room everyday, taking care of our kids when needed, shopping groceries, siang ayam ikn when got back from pasar...provide everything that necessary for our family....i am so lucky n i feel veryyy grateful....syukur Alhamdulillah.... Thank you Allah for granting me a great, handsome, cool, loving and caring husband...

what i really miss to get from u syg...

how long u did not stare into my eyes while talking...
frequent say i love you...
solat jemaah..

i know you are busy with your works....it is more important than your clingy wife...
but sometimes i just need simple attention to keep breathing hehe..


i love you syg...from the bottom of my heart...

5 years and counting...

aminn